You're Tired of Masturbating? Stop Living The Deadly Life Now!

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At one point or the other in our lives we've come in contact with masturbation whether by self discovery or through other sources but according to some scientific research, masturbation is mostly discovered through sources like porn, erotic magazine and the likes. All these especially porn are intertwined with masturbation.

Kids as little as five are now discovering masturbation and what surprise me about this is they know it's a secretive act.

I mean they are kids right? They are not suppose to know this part of life for now.

PRIVACY IN CHILDHOOD

At a certain age (probably from 5 above depending on the child) when a child is growing he/she is given some kind of privacy because at that milestone they can now do some basic thing by themselves and more over because they don't feel comfortable being naked around their parent, they are given privacy.

From this self-conscious stage it likely for either the male child or the female child to discover this act. Are you surprised? Don't be because children now grow faster than their age that is why they are called JET AGE children and besides sex is not just something that come over us like some kind of idea, it is part of human biology(genetic make-up) even before we are born.


JUST A HINT: Do you know that male babies in the womb do have erections?

I bet you didn't know that or did you?

One year old's do have erections too. In fact mothers expect to see this while nursing their babies. If they don't notice this it's a big deal. A serious deal. That's why our mothers tap our penis at that young age.

So if sexuality is not strange to babies of that age why will it be strange to a 5 year old. He/She might not necessarily know anything about the opposite sex's sexuality but he/she surely knows about is but he might not be able to explain it.

DON'T GET ME WRONG, I'm not saying privacy is bad for your kid. What I'm saying here is 100% privacy is bad and unhealthy for him/her. Come on, they are not adults so don't treat them as one.

DON'T FREAK OUT IF YOU DISCOVER YOUR KID MASTURBATES

Another thing parent do is to freak out when they discover their wards masturbate. Please, You don't need to freak out. The last thing you want to do is to be scared. After all , he/she didn't kill someone. They are just at a place of discovering more about themselves.

And the good thing about this is that at this age it is easy to stop them from this act unlike when they are adults. Psychologist who have been helping people beat this habit can testify to this.

HERE IS IT,

FIRST OF, I'm not here to tell you which side I'm on or whether it is good or bad. Let your conscience answer that but one thing I can tell you id the sure ways to stop it.

WHY I SAID I'M NOT GOING TO TELL YOU IF MASTURBATION IS HEALTHY OR NOT

I'm not going to tell you if it's good or bad because of the controversies surrounding it.

It's a pointless debate to me but the catch line is "how do you feel when you commit this act"?

If you feel bad? Guilty? Then you are at the right place but if you feel good then I'm sorry you don't need to be here because this article might be pointless to you.


WHY YOU SHOULD STOP MASTURBATION?

SEXUAL STRENGTH: You should stop masturbation now because it's going to affect you in the long run (after marriage) because each time you do this act you reduce your sexual strength. The ancient Chinese know this fact that is why they don't joke with "sexual strength".

According to some research under the ancient Chinese, sexual strength is very important because it feeds the physical strength upon which a warrior fights with.

If you've exhaust all your sexual strength then there is no need in getting married. It's a waste of time because one day your wife will leave you for a man that still has his own.

Signs Of Decreased Sexual Strength

* quick ejaculation during sex(can't last for minutes)
* ejaculation even when there is no sex
* weak erection
* low libido at all time

GOD's SEED: Another reason you need to stop masturbating is that each time you do this something leaves you, that thing that leaves you is God's seed in you. It doesn't just leave at once it leaves gradually.

People who masturbate always feel emptiness in them, this is because God's seed is no longer in them. God's seed is like a copyright. Just like every manufacturer as is copyright logo on his product. God has his copyright logo on you.

It's on you, it's on every human across this earth when we get close to Him, it starts growing, en rooted in us but we get into sin, it starts shrinking and i must tell you this the worst thing that can happen to man is not to have a relationship with is maker, Such person may be living but he is dead because man was created to relate with God.

DEPRESSION: Studies made so far discovered that men and women who masturbate have a huge load of depression on them. 1. Because they are unable control the addiction. 2. Because they have tried to overcome it times without number but to no Vail. Continuing in this will make you depressed. This is another reason you need to stop masturbating.

ZERO CONFIDENCE: They also have zero confidence in themselves. They seem to be afraid of everything. They are unable chase anything and have it. They are unable to chase the lady of their dreams and settle down. They can't chase their big dreams(what to want to be in the nearby and far future). They can't even chase anything to save their life. They have zero confidence and no zeal about life. Do you want that?

NO INTEREST IN MARRIAGE: They have no interest in marriage. People who indulge in masturbation get their sexual satisfaction from this act therefore have no zeal in settling down. They feel marriage is just a waste of time and a huge responsibility at that. In a simple sentence "they don't need it"

HOW TO BREAK LOOSE FROM MASTURBATION

First of, let me tell you this:

I'm not a magician and even i was, i can't help you in this case.

It took you a long time before you got used to this act and it's gonna to take you time before you stop it.

THE GOD FACTOR: You can't run from God no matter how far you go so please stop running from God no matter how impure you are in his presence. This will make it worse. Each time you fall (masturbate) go back to him. In fact be closer to him than before.
Read you bible, pray and go for seminars has this will help you in breaking loose from this act.

FIND A CONFIDANT: When I mean find a confidant. I'm not saying you should start looking for anyone to discuss this issue with. This means looking for someone you can trust among your friends to tell and if you can't find one, tell your pastor if you can as this will help reduce the weight over you.

START MAKING FRIENDS: Here is the deal. Because people who masturbate find it hard making friends. Start making friends and start now.

Stop looking for perfect conditions to make friends. Start making friends anywhere you are. If you're a guy, start making more female friends and if you're a lady, start making more male friends. NOTE: I didn't say you should date them, I said make friends with them. If you date while trying to conquer masturbation you'll be jumping from frying pan to fire as you'll stop this and start sleeping around.

PUT ON YOUR SUN GLASSES: If you can remember your eye is one of the things that brought you to this state in the first instance (before masturbating you picture someone right?) Someone you fancy. The lady pictures her perfect man, the guy pictures his perfect girl) but asides this you're stimulated by what you see (we are human). So be sensitive about what you watch (movies and TV) and avoid looking at things that will stimulate you(put you in the mood).

SOUL SEARCHING: Ask yourself, "what is my soul searching for? What is that thing my soul longs for and it has not gotten?) Yes, this is a big question man forgets to ask himself when it comes to masturbation. Truth is masturbation is not only about sexual pleasure, it's also about inner needs. In fact when it's gotten to addiction, it's not only about pleasure but soul needs. If you can pin this down. Your half way out of masturbation. The human soul is meant to be joyful, when it's not getting this. It looks for short cuts that is, happiness which won't last for a week.

For some people it's because they are weak in some areas, for some it's because they are not were they are suppose to be presently. So instead of these people working on their weakness they feel tired and do what they are good at (masturbation) and feel even worse.
Work on your weakness, don't get tired of working.

CHANGE YOUR MIND: Tell your brain , masturbating is not the best way to relax from a tensed day. Your brain tell you this but it's not true rather it's going to be worse (it drains you). I guess you know that know since you've tried it repeatedly. The best way to rest is to eat well and sleep well.

Final thoughts on this,

Stopping masturbation is a personal decision. Until do decide you're done! You're not yet done.

God bless you.

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